Finish how you Start..

as told by BW



Ladies:

Y'all are the most wonderful, loving, fascinating, intriguing creatures on the earth. We know this. We also know that what puts us under the spell is the beauty, confidence -allure and-I'll say it (allusiveness) We like....love-LOVE seeing something and knowing that it will be close to impossible to get it. The ol' Thrill of the Hunt saying we've heard forever is not a cliche' but simply a fact!

I'm thinking it's like when ladies may see a beautiful dress, or some slammin shoes...and they're outrageously priced. You might say, those shoes (or this dress) is so on point...I know it's otta my range, but I gotta have it ..and will do what I need to do to get it! That's pretty much how I was when I was reunited with an old friend of the family. She was sweet, smart and focused on putting her stamp on the public relations world.

We had that natural chemistry-from a physical standpoint, but I was into her-mentally.... Because early on, she kept me thinking and wanting to do better for myself. I quickly realized that I had to keep up and work for her time as well as her approval as a man trying to get his. She was the first person to make me believe that I had the ability to succeed as an entrepreneur. She kept me on my toes-and I was willing to do what I needed to do to get it...she was the kinda classy woman I had never been with on that level before.

The sex was just as I thought it would be: once I showed her that she could totally let go with me, it was insane; to say we connected on that level was an understatement.

But...

I soon noticed a change in her..she began to let anything and everything upset her. She was soon 'convinced' I didn't have time to invest in a relationship. To be totally honest, I was entertaining the attention from a chic..one from my past that I often wondered about. If she kept at me, it just might happen..

And if I kept gettin questions and accusations from my classy lady, I know for sure what I'd do.

And yes, I did tell her I wasn't looking for a causal relationship, because I knew it was what she wanted to hear, no matter how hard she tried to come off as. I just hoped she wouldn't break...

but she did...she became too available and I soon came clean about not 'really' being ready for a 'relationship'.

I don't see her anymore; though I've made attempts to state my case and try to remain in her good graces...I've assured her that it's me...and that nothing is wrong with her..

Though this is not completely true.

I wish I could have been straight, and told her she should have kept handlin her business, and dangling that carrot (as they say) cause I know I would have kept tryin to get it.

Remember Lesson number seven ladies: Don't worry about making it too easy for us; if you start off as a bad b@%!$ , don't change. A man ain't worthy if he's not man enough to keep workin for it.